You're an asshole

Welcome to the dating escapades(or failures) of me! This is going to be an ongoing series here at ARYUJLEE. I figured why not? It's like we all went on the date together. I am sure any girl I date that reads this will be pissed, but whatever, I'll deal with that when it comes up.

Name: Alexandra
City: San Clemente
Age: 24

First Impression: She looks a lot like Angie, I'm not sure I am ready for that yet.

How the date went: We are going to classify this as a date, although it was just coffee. She ordered some super large ice mocha crap. Already minus points. Seems like high maintenance. I tell her what I do for a living and she gives me this "Ohhhhhhhhhh", but you know the high pitched "I'm not impressed at all" type of "ohhhhhhh". Also she wonders if there is a lot of money in the carpet business. "Everyone needs carpet" I say, cue the crickets......

She is a nanny. WTF? a Nanny and you are mocking my line of work. F you. Anyways, she is fun. We joke alot about my lack of athletic ability and her hatred of anything yellow(who hates yellow?). The focus then turns to money. I have never had anyone in my entire life ask me so many inappropriate questions about my finances. I've dated girls for months and they never asked me one question pertaining to cashflow. Yet this girl wanted to know if I owned a place, what kind of car I drove, stocks I owned(I shit you not). It was ridiculous. The furthest I answered was yes I own a condo. After that I told her as nicely as I could to mind her own damn business. Needless to say after that I wasn't really interested in her. Never has someone so obviously made it clear what they were looking for. It scared me a bit actually.

So the night went on and she wanted to go get a drink. I never being one to turn down a drink agreed. By the way San Clemente, cool town. So we went to some bar where of course she had 3 girlfriends who just happened to be there. So I met Jojo, Samantha, and Laura. The questions never stopped coming after that. The questioning was worse than anything I have ever had to deal with ever. I didn't even get to really talk much after that with Alexandra. The friends took over. It was terrible. I finished my 2nd drink, high-fived all the ladies(its gold) and bailed. Alexandra actually came out to say goodbye. Gave me a hug and asked if I would call her again sometime. my answer......probably not.

I went into my speech about being honest with her and that a lot of the questions she asked turned me off and made me assume she was after money. Smiles went to frowns, nice words went to.? "You're an asshole"

I actually laughed out loud when she said that. Which of course infuriated her more. It's to bad, I was attracted to her.

Another date?: Not a chance...

Stay tuned for more stories of abuse, laughter and most of all my endless pursuit of ongoing failures.....